Joseph G. Carpentieri Jr.
Date of Death: April 25, 2023
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Russell Sarpraicone left a message on May 24, 2023:
In memory of Joseph G. Carpentieri Jr., Russell Sarpraicone lit a candle
Cathy Cerniglia left a message on May 21, 2023:
I'm sitting here at 12:00 am and can't stop thinking about Joe. I can't seem to wrap my head around the fact of never seeing his smiling face. And his and Joanne's constant encouragements throughout our friendship of which there are too many memories to even share. It's a lifetime of life's memories! I knew the Carpentieri's long before my son was even born and he's 37 years old. Joanne threw my baby shower for his birth and watched him and my daughter grow up and we talked and listened about all the laughter and tears of our children! (Krista, Jennifer and Danny) I can't imagine how much pain his not being here must mean to you. I'm so sorry! This is heartbreaking news! Even though my husband and I moved out of New York, we never lost touch. We would talk at least if not more, 2 times a year. I know that doesn't sound like a lot but you have to understand! When you talked to the "Carpentieri's" you talked! It wasn't like, Hey there, how are you? It was like you saw them yesterday and you talked!! !!!!!! ABOUT EVERYTHING!!!! And you laughed! I mean they really made you laugh!! Joanne, I love you and Pray you never lose your sense of humor, and that Joe will always be by your side even in death!! I pray for the love of your family and friends to stick close! Joe, you were and pain in the ass sometimes but you really loved Joanne! And your children and you grandchildren! You were that kind of guy! Rich and I love you, loved you and you will be sorely missed! See you in Heaven!!!: ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Cheryl paige left a message on May 15, 2023:
Joann, We met eons ago and always stayed in touch and you know you and Joe were my family. Joe was always so kind and friendly to me and I always felt comfortable in your house. He was one of the nicest, smartest hardworking great dad, husband and I’m sure a great friend to many besides me. I remember every time I saw you guys Joe was building or fixing something. I can’t imagine either one of you without the other and i’m devastated by this news. I wish I knew I would have flown in but I’m sure you had enough to deal with and can’t imagine less than 100’s of his friends and family were there. Again I’m so sorry Joann. My sincere condolences to you and your family. You have my number and know you can call me anytime. To Krista, Jennifer and Danny my heart breaks for you and I will keep you all in my prayers. I loved your father so much. He had the best sense of humor and as bad as his heart was it was bigger than the universe. Joe I love you and will miss you so much. I can’t rap my head around the fact that your gone because it was always Joe and Joann in my life. I pray that your at peace now and I know your out of pain. But the pain of you gone that all of us feel is devastating. Fly with the angels my friend. You will always be in my heart.
Krista left a message on May 1, 2023:
Wow Dad, I’m sure you saw that you had quite the turnout. The funeral director told us she had never seen a church that packed for a funeral mass. And your procession was so long we really could have used a police escort. Monti drove all the way from Tennessee, Bauer flew in from Florida, People came from all over to say goodbye to you and to be there for us. You had a lot of friends who loved you, dad. How lucky you are, and how special you were to them. Don’t worry, mommy made sure your hair was perfect and I have to say, you sure looked handsome. You still got it dad, even in death! Oh, and of course cousin carol had to make a spectacle of you once more..she pinned your face to her hat and wore it to the funeral…we loved it! Your send off was beautiful and seeing Danny ride your Panhead to the wake was heart wrenching…so proud I was of him, and I know you were too. The Airforce flag presentation and flag folding was an honor, and yes u can thank me for that one, cause no one else remembered to tell the funeral director you served! They all tease and make fun of “a million questions Krista”, but one of my million moments was a good one! Mommy gave your flag to Danny, it was a beautiful moment. She couldn’t wait to hand it to him and told us ahead of time that she wanted him to have it…it made her so happy. Jerry told us the story about how u refused to play “Stairway to Heaven” at one of your gigs….how is it possible that we never heard this story before? I thought we heard them all! I loved when Lott told me about how u would never let him hang up the phone without saying “I Love you”, and if he did forget, you would call him back and say “did you forget something?” That story resonated with me, cause I know how important it was to you to always say that….but getting big, macho, grown men to do it…only you could make that happen! I hope people will continue to share your stories. I keep smelling your cologne, I’m not sure if I’m delusional or just wishing it was u letting me know your near me. I keep seeing your prayer card and I have to look away quickly, because my head can’t grasp that your gone, so if I don’t look at it, it didn’t really happen. Well, its been 1 day since I saw your face and 5 days since I heard your voice. I saw a mourning dove on the shed, all alone…I like to think it was you. After a few minutes you flew away, and I hope you come back soon.
Krissstaaaa left a message on May 1, 2023:
In memory of Joseph G. Carpentieri Jr., Krissstaaaa lit a candle
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Peter Cundari left a message on April 30, 2023:
Joanne and family.I haven’t seen Joe or you in many years.I know you’re family grew since.I know Joe was a wonderful husband father.A I know he was a wonderful grandpa.Joe and I had many laughs at the RR.I heard of his passing yesterday.I was sad to hear that.I know your marriage to Joe was a solid one.I believe use were soulmates.I remember Joe always talking about his family.And always mentoring you.Which told me you where his rock.So I know your a strong woman.Keep the faith you have a wonderful son and two daughters.And a bunch of grandchildren.To keep you happy forever.I offer you and your entire family.My most sincere condolences. RIP JOE PETER CUNDARI
Ronnie Bosco left a message on April 30, 2023:
Joann I was trying to look you up and I came across the terrible news about Joe. I am so sorry for you and your family's loss. Once things settle down, give me a call or email. God BlessYou. Love Ronnie Bosco 973-747-7681
Lorraine DiMarco left a message on April 29, 2023:
What a beautiful life and family. Joe you touched many many people. You are larger than life and will be missed by many. Rest now in Jesus’ arms. Until we meet again
Chuck Dudley left a message on April 29, 2023:
To quote you Joe, You were Truly, the Best of the Best! Every time I entered your Home, I felt the Love that You and Joann shared! Thanks for Sharing that Love with Gaby and I. Joe was a Great Husband, Father, Grandfather and Friend. I will never forget you and your Kindness. Thank You for letting us be a part of Your lives. R.I.P. my Kind and Generous Friend. May God Bless You Always.
Dave and Liz left a message on April 29, 2023:
Ride like the wind Joe!
Bob and Debra Charland left a message on April 28, 2023:
Our hearts our so sadden to hear of Joe’s passing. We are so sorry we could not be there unfortunately Bob had knee replacement surgery today. I have some many memories of laughing with Joe and Joann. There are just no words to express our sorrow. With much love Bob and Debbie
Rosanne and Bobby Broderick left a message on April 28, 2023:
Joe when you came into our lives we never thought we would find such true and great friends in you and Joann. You touched our lives and so many others in so many ways. We are going to miss you so very much. I promise to always be there for Joann. We truly love you. Bobby is going to be lost without you. You brought out a side of him that I never thought any one could do. You did the impossible. I could go on and on. And Joe you made me cry. You didn't think that was possible. Did you? I guess I'm not as hard as you thought. You were so blessed to have such a great family and great friends. You are and always; will be forever in our hearts.God Bless you and your family! Bobby and Rosanne
Pam & Augie Arena left a message on April 28, 2023:
A beautiful soul, gone to soon. Heartfelt condolences to all.
Chuck Isleman left a message on April 28, 2023:
So sorry for your loss!May God be with you all!
Mike and Jody Bonura left a message on April 27, 2023:
Dear Joann and family, Our deepest sympathy for your loss! We will always remember joes kindness and charm.
Kenneth Rodgers left a message on April 27, 2023:
In memory of Joseph G. Carpentieri Jr., Kenneth Rodgers lit a candle
Couisin Arleen left a message on April 27, 2023:
May your contagious laughter and bright smile shine on in our hearts!
Couisin Arleen Sarppraicone left a message on April 27, 2023:
Many people will walk into and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart. You will be greatly missed Joe, the love of your family shines bright in your wife, best friend, confidante Joann, your son Danny, daughters Krista and Jennifer, and their spouses, as well as all your grandkids! I will truly miss our in depth conversations and all the laughter, your smile could light up a room and talk about the way you could set a story straight. “Let me tell you somethin cuz” be easy on the angels in heaven, keep them smiling down on us, let your light shine on brighter than ever! I pray for your family during this difficult time. May You Rest in Peace my dear cuz, I made you a cup of tea. God Bless
dcirone32gmail .com left a message on April 27, 2023:
To Joseph carpentered family,,sorry for your loss,his soul may rest in peace!,
Krista left a message on April 27, 2023:
I miss you already...I have to write your eulogy today dad…please help me find all the right words cause I’m numb and struggling. I’m gonna sit in your flannel, spray some of your curve on it, and we are gonna become one today. My hands are your hands. Comfort Mommy, and always stay in an earshot of us if we need you. And if u did finally see a light, “the light”, any “light”…please figure out a way to tell us!! We know this has been driving you crazy for years. Love you Daddy
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Patrick and Mary Carpentieri left a message on April 27, 2023:
Dear Joann and family, We are so sorry for your loss and sending hugs and prayers. Joe’s smile and laugh was infectious and we will think about him and miss him terribly. He is now your special guardian angel who will always be there to watch over you and keep you safe.
Dawn Bradley (Montagnino) left a message on April 27, 2023:
Still remember being picked up by Joe on his bike to baby-sit the girls. Much love and prayers to the whole family.
Jennifer Spers left a message on April 27, 2023:
You will be deeply missed.
William Harding left a message on April 27, 2023:
I’m so sorry to hear of Joey’s passing..We had so many good times.You always brought good laughs to everyone.Claudia and I offer our deepest condolences to JoAnn and his children and grandchildren.Joe may you rest easy in Eternal Peace.
Mike Bauer left a message on April 27, 2023:
So sorry for the loss of such a great friend. When I went thru a rough time in my life he was there to help me get thru it. He will never be forgotten and he was truly one of a kind with a heart that was always warm and caring
Dolores Oconnor left a message on April 26, 2023:
Always be remembered for his beautiful hair always perfect. Ride into the night Joe. Dee
Cousin Denise Erdemoglu left a message on April 26, 2023:
My heart aches for you JoAnn your children & your grandchildren…Joe was such an amazing husband,father,friend & cousin. I admired deeply the relationship you both had, always making each other laugh especially through adversity. What a sensitive man with a deep conviction to his family. What a treasure you were Joe ! I truly will miss the man I got to call cuz. One of a kind!
Laura Carpentieri left a message on April 26, 2023:
Joe, whenever we saw you, you always made us laugh uncontrollably. We are going to miss you so very much. Joanne to you and your family we are so sorry.
John and Debbi Danz left a message on April 26, 2023:
Our deepest condolences to Joann and your entire family. Joe was one of a kind and will always be in our hearts.Love you babes.
Jeanine & Steve Weredyk left a message on April 26, 2023:
I will never forget our kitchen table conversations and all the great times we shared as a family. Cousin Joe, we will miss you for the rest of our lives!
Diana Diemer left a message on April 26, 2023:
We will truly miss you. You were a great host and a great cousin and friend. Love, Diana & Richard
Diana Diemer left a message on April 26, 2023:
In my heart, you will forever be linked with grandma's house -- spaghetti and meatballs and having a great time clowning around with our other cousins. The power of family and friendship all rolled up into one. Your memory will live on in our hearts. Love & Miss you, Diana & Richard
John Murphy left a message on April 26, 2023:
So sorry to hear this knew Joe from our days in LI City , glad I got to see him again a few times recently. Condolences to the family .
Wendy and John Baumgartner left a message on April 26, 2023:
We will miss you, our family will not be the same without you. Love and prayers go out to Joann and all of your family….you will be remembered always.
john Martini left a message on April 26, 2023:
In memory of Joseph G. Carpentieri Jr., john Martini lit a candle
Mo left a message on April 26, 2023:
Oh Joe, My Forever Friend, I'm so sorry you had to leave us and go home. You will live on in My Heart. My Dear Friend You are Loved Everyday, ~Mo
CHERYL GAGLIANO left a message on April 26, 2023:
Dearest JoAnn and Family, words just cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your Beloved Joe’s passing. Ray and I had the most hilarious times with both of you. I pray that Our Lord Comfort you and yours in this most difficult of times. Love ❤️ Cheryl
JUAN A GONZALEZ left a message on April 26, 2023:
Rest in Peace Joe met you in Long Beach 1988 Alway's was a pleasure to conversate with you. I was just Hired in 1987, and it felt. Like we knew each other for so long. May You Rest in Eternal Peace.
Kristie langrock left a message on April 26, 2023:
To know Joe was to love him! And fear him…. Lol. As teenager we feared him. As adults we loved and respected him immensely. He always had a joke to tell a smile to give, and a laugh to listen to. He always had words of wisdom and undeniable knowledge the legend he has created through his children is undeniable. The love he had for his children and his grand children are unmatched the love he has, for his wife is and always will be undeniable through the good Times and the bad they kept it together, and only came out stronger he was a father to many and he will continue looking over his loved ones now and forever he will always be missed and never forgotten. Fly free, Mr. Carpenteri.
Mary Martino left a message on April 26, 2023:
In memory of Joseph G. Carpentieri Jr., Mary Martino lit a candle
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Patty Honohan left a message on April 26, 2023:
Dear Joann and Family , so sorry for the loss of a truly Great friend , Joe will be missed terribly, sending you our prayers and condolences ❤️, All our love Pat n Larry ❤️
Staci Huether left a message on April 26, 2023:
Sending love and condolences to the Carpentieri’s during this difficult time. Joe will be missed so much. He was a special man, husband, father, grandfather. May he rest in peace. Love to All.
Rosanne Sofia left a message on April 26, 2023:
May your father rest in peace with the angels. Mike and I will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Donna Carpentieri left a message on April 26, 2023:
Deepest sympathy to all the family and friends
Al and Debbie left a message on April 26, 2023:
Joe you will always and forever be in our hearts. We love you BIG!! Al, Debbie and Dani
Carol & Kevin Curran left a message on April 26, 2023:
A day won't go by that we will not be missing you & wishing we were still together laughing.
Moloney Family Funeral Homes left a message:
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