Healing thoughts and loving prayers to you all!!
My condolences to Bill and all of Heathers family and friends. I met Heather through my sister-in-law Joanne. Joanne spoke so highly of heather and I was so happy I was able to finally meet her. She was a remarkable and giving person. Heather was so helpful to my sister-in-law over the years while she dealt with her illness. Heather never hesitated and always ran to help her whenever Joanne needed her. Even after Joanne's passing she helped my husband and I tremendously. We are forever grateful for her kindness and were truly blessed we had the opportunity to get to know her. Heaven certainly gained another angel. Rest in Peace dear Heather and thank you for being the light in so many peoples lives.
I worked with Heather for many years she was the sweetest, kindest person. A strong advocate for children and a loyal supporter for staff and parents. She will be terribly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing her and working with her. My deepest condolences to her family , friends and colleagues.
My deepest condolences to the Howell and Jablonsky families. Also to those who love and miss her. Heather was my mentor when I entered into RCSD and quickly realized that she was a wealth of knowledge and experience to learn from. Whenever unsure or stumped, my go to was to call Heather for advice. Heather’s big heart was seen through the endless care and love she gave others. However, her sense of humor and hysterical stories would cause a range of reactions from a smile to making you pee your pants. I loved our “mental health” meetings, where everything under the sun was discussed. She has left a Heather sized whole in the RCSD community and our hearts.
There’s comfort in the knowledge that she has gone to a better place (Heaven, Over the Rainbow Bridge, whatever), is young/healthy no longer suffering and sharing her love with everyone (human and fur babies) that have gone before her. I hope that she’s able to send us some signs that she’s not completely gone from our lives.
Love And Miss You.
Heather was my mentor in September of 2017. It was my first year in Riverhead schools and upon meeting her she immediately apologized for the the “F” bombs she would use in expressing herself. She was witty, sarcastic, and so knowledgeable of the school system. She had great clinical skills which made me be all the more fond of her. AfteR she mentored me, I knew our relationship would just get closer and it did indeed. We spoke almost daily despite not working in the same school. She was no longer my mentor but a dear friend. We vented about work stress and shared information about family life. She loved her family fiercely and was a caring, kind, loyal and devoted friend. I dont know what my day to day life at work will be like without her. I keep replaying my last conversation with her in my head and I wish I could have said more. I cant even begin to imagine what her family, husband, and other close friends are going through. She will be missed terribly. I am so sorry for the Howell and Jablonsky families loss. My heart and thoughts are with you and I will be sure to honor Heather, her work, and passions in my very own work on a daily basis..
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Heather was a ray of sunshine to so many children, my son Logan included. She helped him through some trying times. We will be forever grateful for her compassion and love for our son. She will be sorely missed. May she rest peacefully.
The loss of someone dear to us is never easy. I hope all the cherished memories that you have of Heather brings you some light during this dark time. My deepest condolences. Heather was a lovely person with the biggest kind heart. I will miss those text messages with funny memes, I will miss those phone calls just checking on each other, I will miss our laughs as I corrected her Spanish. My heart is hurting at this great loss! RIP my dear friend.
Heather’s compassion, warmth, and strength were a blessing in difficult times. Her humor, warmth, and appreciation of others made enjoyable times more. She will be missed. Love and Hugs to Bill, Jo, Dave and the rest of her family.
Heather was such a wonderful part of the Riverhead Central School District. We worked together on and off for many years. Heather always offered kind words, support and guidance for so many students~ I was a better person for knowing her.
Linda Borenstein
I'm at a loss for words to express my sadness. Heather was such a good, long time friend. We always appreciated that even if the months passed when we did catch up it felt like yesterday. So many memories.. from soccer, middle school lunch table, high school and so many fun trips with family and friends. Sending my deepest condolences to Bill and the Howells. I'll miss you very much Heather.. xoxo.
Heather, your kindness, compassion will be missed. Still remember you walking through the halls with the service dog.
In memory of Heather
Elena
Jablonsky, Earl and Peggy Schell lit a candle
My friend, I will miss you.
May she rest in peace and rise to glory eternal. Amen
In memory of Heather
Elena
Jablonsky, Lisa Dandrea lit a candle
Dear Jo, Dave and Family,
There are no words other than to let you know how terribly sorry I am to learn of your profound loss.
Best always ,
Anne Genovese
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Heather was a wonderful person and a true friend, and she helped me get through a lot of difficult times growing up. You all were a very special part of my life and I cherish the times we spent together. Wishing you comfort during this time.
My sincere condolences for the loss of this wonderful soul. You were such a light for all who were fortunate to know you. Your kind and thoughtful acts at St Andrews will forever be our blessing. Rest in Peace Heather.
I am shocked and saddened by Heather's sudden passing. I've enjoyed working with you these past few years.
I'm just heartbroken over this news.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Heather and I worked together for 30. Years. I loved her like a sister.
We made each other laugh constantly.
Unfortunately I need to take my husband to Sloan Kettering on Monday for cancer treatment and will be unable to attend Monday’s services.
Heather will be in my heart forever.
I am so sorry to hear of Heather’s passing. I first met Heather at Riley Avenue Elementary School, where i worked in the main office, and Heather was the school social worker. I remember the fun get togethers in the summer, at her house. We also kept connected when she worked in Aquebogue School, and I was in the Special Education Office. Heather was always so sweet, and we had a lot of laughs. She is one of the reasons my daughter is a Social Worker today. My condolences go out to the entire family. Rest in Peace, Heather ❤️ ……Donna Alfano
So saddened to learn of your passing. You were an inspiration and a light for children, and I was lucky enough to work so closely with you and our students together at Pulaski. May you Rest In Peace.
May her name be a blessing for her whole family.
I am so sorry for your loss!
Heather you always was a dear friend. You were very encouraging to me. You had a huge heart for the well-being of your students. I remember your song "Amazing Grace". Love and miss you. ❤
I’m so sorry to hear about Heather’s passing. I worked with her years ago and she was so kind and funny. She will definitely be missed! My condolences
May you shine down on all your students and guide them from above. May you rest in peace!
Sending our love and prayers to your entire extended families. Heather was a riot and as Tara’s friends we always loved a chance to hang out with Heather. She was so much fun and always made us laugh. What a wicked sense of humor. Sending you all our condolences, love and prayers.
Sincerely,
Sheila Riordan Nugent
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.